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Friday, October 16, 2015

How to Make Pear Puree for Babies

I think this is a good starting point for those of you who are keen to go with the Traditional weaning. Works for other fruits too and I like how it's got pictures!

 Homemade pear puree is sweet, filled with fiber, and rich in vitamin C. Follow our easy step-by-step instructions to make this ideal first food for your baby.
 

Step 1: Select & Buy Fresh Pear

Baby Food: Pear & Banana Puree
 
pear
 
Bartlett pears are an ideal first fruit for babies - they're nutritious, soft, mild, and sweet. In late summer, peak season, pears may be so ripe that you don't have to cook them before you puree them. The ripest pear will smell sweet and have a yellow color that may or may not be accented with a rosy blush. Look for fruit that's firm and free of bruises and other blemishes. One medium pear yields about five ounces of puree.

Step 2: Wash & Peel the Pear

wash pears
 
Wash pears with a mixture of three parts water and one part white vinegar to remove bacteria. Rinse under cool running water, dry, and peel. The easiest way to peel a pear is to use a vegetable peeler and work in a circular motion around the fruit. If you do not have a vegetable peeler, use a sharp paring knife.
peeling pear
 

Step 3: Core & Chop the Pear

core pears
 
Set the peeled pear, stem side up, on a clean cutting board. Slice in half, lengthwise. To remove the core, cup each pear half, one at a time, in your palm and cut in a shallow scooping motion with a paring knife or melon baller. Once the core is removed, finish slicing the pear into equal-sized slices and then quarter each slice.
chopping pears
 

Step 4: Steam Underripe Pear

steam pears
 
If your pear is ripe, skip this step and move on to step 5. If you?re working with pears that aren't fully ripe, place the fruit in a steamer and cook for 3 to 5 minutes or until tender.

Step 5: Puree or Mash the Pear

pureeing pears
 
Puree chunks of pear in a food processor or blender until smooth. Add water as needed to reach desired consistency.
For chunkier pear puree, which is ideal for babies 10 months or older, mash the pear with a potato masher instead of pureeing it.

Step 6: Serve Pear Puree

Pear puree is sweet and mild. Serve it plain or mix it with another puree or two to introduce your baby to new flavors and textures.
Try mixing pear puree with:
Pear Puree
 
  • Sweet potato
  • Butternut squash
  • Pumpkin
  • Green Beans
  • Peach
  • Plum
  • Cherries
  • Strawberries
  • Blueberries
  • Banana
  • Yogurt
  • Beef
  • Chicken
  • Turkey

Step 7: Freeze Leftover Pear Puree

freeze pear puree
 
Cool pear puree and refrigerate leftovers in BPA-free containers for up to 3 days. Freeze leftovers for up to 3 months. Thaw overnight in your refrigerator.

Note: Always check with your pediatrician before introducing your baby to a new food, particularly if your baby has food allergies. Additionally, some pediatricians do not recommend making your own carrot, beet, or spinach puree because these fresh veggies can be higher in nitrates.
Copyright & copy 2011 Meredith Corporation.

Monday, October 12, 2015

5 benefits of exercising in the morning vs. the evening

Actually, it doesn't really matter...kinda tailored to one's taste really.

Just like wine

Just like coffee

Mmmm...

Enjoy! Thanks Kfit

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Should I exercise in the morning or in the evening? Guess what? It doesn’t really matter….to a certain extent. What’s important is really listening to your body and doing what works for you. Personally, we love morning workouts because it puts you in a great mood for the rest of the day.
So give it a try, vary up your routine! Here are 5 benefits of working out in the mornings AND in the evenings.
Yaaaawwwnnnn .. Morning workouts!
  1. It’ll perk you up for the rest of the day and you’ll be high off that endorphin rush!
  2. You don’t have to fight for a spot in class for most of the morning classes.
  3. You can go and grab an awesome breakfast after your morning work out… because you deserve it.
  4. It is way more cooling in the morning (and possibly less humid too).
  5. Waking up early means sleeping early, which means a healthy, happy sleep cycle!

The Evening Endorphin Rush
  1. Your energy levels to start off with will be much higher as you’ve had the whole day to “warm up” and fill yourself up with food and water.
  2. The likelihood of sustaining injuries is lower because your body is already “warmed up”.
  3. It feels so good to work out and release all of that stress after a long work day!
  4. You won’t feel so guilty having a hearty dinner after a good workout session.
  5. You don’t have to rush through your workout and you can really enjoy it!
Convinced yet? KFit has over hundreds of classes available at any time of the day. Check out our Schedule page for more information on what’s available near you!

By Sarah Voon

Friday, October 9, 2015

Yoga for Weightlifters: 7 Poses

Great article! Not only it helps stretch you down but also increase in mobility that further enhances the workout better =)

Well, this article applies to those who lift ANY weights too...and guess what, if you need a little motivation try the Les Mills Body Balance class coz that teaches ALL the poses below.

Thanks ACE


Flexibility is an important yet often overlooked component of a well-rounded fitness routine, especially for those who tend to gravitate to strength-based workouts. Adequate range of motion around the joints is imperative to perform loaded movement patterns safely and effectively using strength-training tools such as barbells and dumbbells. In addition to enhancing performance in the gym, incorporating movements into one’s workout routine that enhance joint stability and mobility will also address existing muscle imbalance and allow for greater ease and efficiency when performing activities of daily living (ADLs) outside of the gym. The following yoga poses focus on stretching the major muscle groups typically used when performing ADLs (calves, thighs, hip flexors, back, chest and shoulders) while enhancing mobility in the hips, ankles, shoulders and thoracic spine.

Downward Facing Dog



Begin in hands-and-knees position with knees below hips and hands positioned slightly forward of shoulders. As you inhale, spread fingers wide, rooting both palms firmly into the mat while simultaneously tucking toes under. As you exhale, begin to extend legs, drawing hips and tailbone toward t ceiling, creating an inverted V-shape with the body as the heels move toward floor. The head and neck should be positioned between the upper arms with feet situated hip-width distance apart. Focus on maintaining length in the spine in this pose, releasing shoulders away from the ears and keeping knees as softly or deeply bent as needed, while continuing to root firmly and equally through both hands and feet. Maintain this position, breathing comfortably for three to five complete breath cycles.

Upward Facing Dog



Lie on stomach with legs fully extended along the mat, with the tops of feet on floor. Place palms on the mat directly alongside the ribs, keeping elbows bent. As you inhale, press palms into the floor, extending arms while simultaneously lifting the torso and thighs off the mat. Allow hips to soften slightly toward the ground while at the same time lifting through the sternum. Soften shoulders away from the ears and maintain neutral alignment in the neck. If accessible, look upward only with the eyes. Maintain this position, breathing comfortably for three to five complete breath cycles.

Modified Revolved Crescent



From downward facing dog, step right foot between hands, coming into a low lunge position. Immediately release left knee, shin and top of left foot to rest on mat. As you inhale, sweep both arms toward the ceiling coming into crescent lunge, shifting weight forward slightly to allow right thigh to draw parallel to floor. As you exhale, draw left arm across the body resting left hand to outside of right thigh while drawing right hand to right hip. Inhale to lean torso forward slightly while maintaining length in spine, then exhale to rotate torso toward the right side of the mat while drawing right shoulder back. Gaze toward the right side wall, maintaining this twisting position for three to five complete cycles of breath before switching sides and repeating.

Extended Triangle Pose



Stand at top of mat with feet together, placing a block at the tallest setting outside of the right foot. Step left foot back 3-4 feet, turning left toes toward left side of mat at almost a 90-degree angle with chest facing left side of the room. Align the heel of the front right foot with either the arch or the heel of the back left foot, depending on what is most comfortable for you. With legs extended, outstretch arms wide in opposition, reaching toward the front and back edges of the mat. As you inhale, reach right fingertips forward toward front of room. As you exhale, release the right hand to rest atop the block, drawing left fingertips toward the ceiling with arm in line with shoulder. Hold this position for three to five complete cycles of breath before switching sides and repeating.

Supported Lizard Pose



From downward facing dog, step right foot between the hands coming into a low lunge position, shifting weight forward slightly to allow right thigh to draw parallel to floor while remaining on the ball of the back left foot. Draw both hands atop a block positioned inside of the right foot, drawing foot slightly out toward the right side of the mat. Keeping hips and shoulders squared to the floor, release both elbows and forearms to rest on top of the block, continuing to press back slightly through the left heel. Maintain this position, breathing comfortably for three to five complete breath cycles before switching sides and repeating.

Supported Pyramid Pose



Stand at top of mat with feet together, placing a block on each side of the feet at the tallest setting. With hands on hips, step left foot back 3-4 feet, turning left toes out slightly, to approximately a 45- to 60-degree angle. Align the heel of the front right foot with the heel of the back left foot. Keeping legs extended, inhale to lift the chest slight. Maintaining an elongated spine exhale fold forward, hinging at the hips to release hands to the blocks. Square chest in line with right thigh then fold forward, deepening the stretch in the hamstrings. Maintain this position for three to five complete breath cycles before slowly rising and repeating on the opposite side.

Dancer's Pose



Stand at top mat with feet together, arms extended alongside the body. As you inhale, sweep both arms up toward ceiling, palms facing one another. With left arm extended bend right arm, drawing elbow in to touch right hip with palm facing up. Shift weight to left foot and bend right knee, drawing right heel toward right glute with knees close together. Keeping right thumb pointed toward back of mat, reach right hand back to capture inside of right foot. Inhale and extend the spine, reaching toward ceiling with left finger tips. On the exhalation, begin to press right foot into hand and right hand into foot, drawing right heel toward ceiling and right thigh parallel to floor. Continue lifting right leg as much as accessible while keeping hips and shoulders squared with chest lifted. Hold for three to five complete cycles of breath before repeating on the opposite side.

Cow Face Pose



Begin in a seated position on mat with knees bent and feet flat on floor. Slide right heel toward left glute with toes pointing toward left side of the mat while aligning right knee to point forward toward front of mat in line with navel. Cross left leg over the right, stacking knees atop one another, allowing left toes to point toward right side of mat while rooting both sitting bones into the mat. Holding a yoga strap or towel in the right hand extend right arm up with palm facing forward then bend elbow, drawing right hand behind the neck with strap in line with spine. Extend left arm out toward left side wall with palm facing backward, thumb pointed down. Bend left elbow and draw hand behind the back to grasp the strap wherever is accessible. Work the hands as close together as possible while continuing to lift the chest, avoiding rounding shoulders forward. Maintain this position, breathing comfortable for five cycles of breath before releasing arms and uncrossing legs and repeating on the opposite side with arms and legs in reversed position

Monday, October 5, 2015

The Busy Person’s Guide to Squeezing in Exercise

Definitely no excuses here. I don't have much chance to head to the gym over the weekends, so these tips are really handy although there is a slight chance that I do get into 'lazy' mode. Sometimes fresh air really helps.

I like the funny pictures that goes with these tips though! Check it out here or below. There are 7 of them.




Finding time to exercise between a busy job and other commitments can be difficult. But no more excuses! With a little planning, it’s easy to sneak a little incidental exercise into your daily routine. Don’t underestimate mini exercises or efforts for a more active lifestyle which can lead to an improved immune system, overall health, and weight loss or maintenance.
Trust us, your body will thank us!

1. Eliminate shortcuts

dogstairs

Ditch the escalator or elevator in favour of the stairs. Stair climbing is a highly beneficial exercise as it helps with cardio health, bone strength, general strength, body toning, and weight loss. For added intensity, skip steps or increase your speed. Bonus points to this exercise for all the awkward elevator silences you get to avoid!
Besides stair-climbing, eliminate other shortcuts like parking right at the entrance of a building. Park a little further from the entrance and sneak in a brisk walk. Instead of driving, take public transportation so you get exercise from standing in the LRT or KTM, and extra walk time to stations or stops.

2. Active play dates or date nights

datenights

Instead of happy hour or dinner plans, gather your friends at your neighbourhood tennis court, basketball court, or indoor futsal arena. This way, you get to hang out with your sweetheart and friends, team-build, and squeeze in much-needed exercise. Better yet, these activities are cheap or even free.
If your friends aren’t exactly sportsmen and sportswomen, try cycling, swimming, or jogging at your neighbourhood park or places like Lake Gardens.

3. Get up and go speak to people in your office

catstalking

We love messenger apps because it means that we can quickly ping our colleague from the finance department or send a funny joke to a friend in the sales division. But it also makes us more than a little lazy! Get off your butt and walk over to your workmate for a chat instead. This allows you to stretch your body and if you do it enough, earns you some incidental cardio! Plus, it has the added benefit of giving your eyes a break from the harsh lighting of your computer screen.

4. Do your chores

chores

We don’t mean to sound like your parents, but do your chores! Chores like car washing, sweeping and mopping and grocery shopping take up a lot of energy. This means that you burn calories, do cardio duty, and train your strength when you carry buckets of water or a week’s worth of milk.
So the next time you’re thinking about sending your car in for a wash or hiring a part time cleaner, try doing those chores to collect exercise (and brownie) points.

5. Add exercise to your TV time

tv

Watching your favourite comedy show while letting your brain checkout is a good way to unwind. Use commercial breaks to do quick exercises like crunches, lunges, and squats. Simply search for those exercises on Youtube so the next time The Voice goes to ad-break, you can squeeze one or two reps in.
If you’re ready for a bigger commitment, spend some money on a treadmill and run during TV time!

6. Take time-out at work
timeout

Every few hours at the office, break from your spreadsheets and charts to do quick and easy exercises. Go to a quieter side of the office and try out simple exercises like wall sits, toe touches, torso twists, and more.
These help increase your heart rate, burn calories, and improve flexibility. You also get to stretch and escape from plunging performance graphs for a while.

7. Lift weights

liftweights

Weight lifting is not reserved for Olympic and power lifters. You too can benefit from simple weight lifting using small hand weights. Bring a hand weight to a conference or carry it around while walking. Learn exercises like bicep curls, shoulder presses, and more.
These simple weight workouts help tone your upper body and improve muscular functioning. See here for more arm and shoulder workouts.
Image Credit: Giphy

Friday, October 2, 2015

Age Is Irrelevant When It Comes to Fitness

"The key lies in intensity—that is, consistently jacking your heart rate into the upper echelons of its potential peak. Yet intensity is typically one of the first things to vanish from your workouts, maybe even your races, when you hit middle age. That’s because many athletes drift into long, slow distance (LSD), not because they are no longer capable of redlining, but because this type of training feels less taxing. But all those intervals you did in college? You never should have stopped. If anything, they become more vital as you get older."

I'm liking this article already

Also we need to:
-Lift weights
-Eat more protien
-Sleep and
-Rest totally

So. spot. on.


Age Is Irrelevant When It Comes to Fitness

Last February, 59-year-old Ned Overend, aka “The Lung,” aka “Deadly Nedly,” won the first National Fatbike Championships, held in Ogden, Utah. Fat Bike Nats isn’t exactly the Tour de France, but it’s no charity ride, either. Overend had to compete against a field of much younger pros, including former national mountain bike champion Travis Brown, 46, on a tough 19-mile course.
It’s tempting to dismiss Overend as a genetic freak, an outlier who defies comparison with the rest of us. He has dominated nearly every sport he’s entered since the early ’90s, from cross-country mountain bike racing to off-road triathlon. But even among the genetically gifted—and many elite athletes are—Overend is unique in his competitive longevity. Which is the reason he’s also one of the dozen or so athletes spotlighted in Joe Friel’s latest book, Fast After 50 (Velo Press), part of a growing library devoted to salt-and-pepper chargers past (and occasionally well past) the half-century mark.

I recently spent a few weeks immersed in Fast After 50, along with a few other books on the topic, including Margaret Webb’s Older, Faster, Stronger, Lee Bergquist’s Second Wind, and Bill Gifford’s excellent and entertaining Spring Chicken. My interest was both professional and personal. I was staring down the gun barrel at 50, the ominous milestone, just a year and change away. Should I prepare to surrender to backgammon and bocce, or was there still hope for my lifelong addiction to biking, skiing, climbing, and other outdoor activities and races?

While all the books were informative, and even inspirational, chronicling many aging athletes who still excelled at their respective sports, Friel’s was the only one dedicated to mapping out a plan of action. A few years ago, Friel, 71, author of the classic Training Bible series and one of the most respected figures in endurance coaching, noticed that his own power on the bike was fading. His training group, which varied from young to old, routinely started dropping him on climbs, which had been rare in the past. Compelled to see if science offered any solutions, he dove into the research literature, which was limited but enlightening. Were there ways to beat time, the ultimate foe?
The news, it turns out, is good and bad. Good, because, yes, there are ways to fight the fade. Even if you can’t quite turn back the clock, you can actually slow it considerably and maintain a high level of performance deep into your sunset years. The bad news is that senescence—aging—remains, for now at least, inexorable, and effectively battling it requires diligence and work.

Friel lays out the science before launching into his trademark blueprint for sustaining, and even improving, high-end performance through your 50s, 60s, 70s, and beyond. The main factors that conspire against you are declining aerobic capacity, more body fat, shrinking muscles, and decreased mobility—the four horsemen of the fitness apocalypse, deterioration that accelerates as you get older.
But back to the good stuff. Friel argues that the most potent forces that affect aging have to do with behavior and lifestyle. “There is reason to believe that the major contributor to the performance decline in athletes as they get older is nurture, with nature playing a smaller role,” he writes. “As we age, exercise behavior (nurture) appears to play a significant role in how our given genetic biology (nature) plays out.”
 
Friel ballparks nurture’s percentage at 60 to 70 percent. Let’s pause to consider this. If you buy Friel’s assessment, and you probably should because few people have been more involved in the study and application of exercise physiology than he has, he’s telling you that as much as 70 percent of your athletic power after turning 50 remains under your control. Have you heard better news today?



But how do you remain the same badass you’ve always been? How do you unleash your inner Ned?
Friel believes the key lies in intensity—that is, consistently jacking your heart rate into the upper echelons of its potential peak. Yet intensity is typically one of the first things to vanish from your workouts, maybe even your races, when you hit middle age. That’s because many athletes drift into long, slow distance (LSD), not because they are no longer capable of redlining, but because this type of training feels less taxing. But all those intervals you did in college? You never should have stopped. If anything, they become more vital as you get older.

“Training with an emphasis on high-intensity intervals has been my preferred method of preparing for races throughout my career,” Overend writes in Fast After 50. “I’ve learned that by reducing volume, I’m more rested for high-intensity sessions, and by being rested I can push myself harder during the intervals.”

Friel holds up a classic study from the 1970s led by Michael Pollock at the Institute of Aerobics Research in Dallas, Texas, that looked at 24 competitive masters runners between the ages of 42 and 59. During the initial ten-year analysis, 13 of the runners ceased competing, though they continued to run long, slow distance as training. The other 11 continued to race at high intensity. While both groups put in about the same weekly mileage, the high-intensity runners saw their VO2 max drop a mere 1.6 percent, compared to the LSD group, whose VO2 max dropped a striking 12 percent. Recent longitudinal studies further support these findings.

“Both training volume and intensity are important to the maintenance of fitness as we age,” writes Friel, “but intensity is more important.”
 
“Intensity” is another way to describe a kind of stress that prompts adaptive physiological changes. The idea of using exposure to stress as a way to improve athletic performance—or at least not lose it—also comes up in Gifford’s Spring Chicken when he introduces us to a chemical engineer from California named Todd Becker, aka the “world’s toughest nerd.”

Becker runs a health and fitness blog called Getting Stronger and is an outspoken proponent of “hormesis”—a fancy term of Greek origin describing the stress-adaptation process. Becker is bullish on cold-water plunges, fasted workouts, weightlifting, sprinting, and other ways to nudge the body further to prompt positive adaptations. As Gifford points out, this is similar to the way vaccines work: Inject small doses of a virus into a host, which in turn generates the antibodies to protect you from the virus.

Delivering managed doses of stress followed by a well-managed recovery period, goes the theory, builds you back up stronger. Also known as periodization, this is the art and science behind almost all athletic training. It’s certainly a recurring theme in all of the books in my survey, which echo a common refrain: “Use it or lose it,” with one twist. Don’t just use it—push it.


If all this insistence on charging harder and exposing yourself to intense bouts of stress sounds scary, particularly in light of several recent stories about heart damage and even sudden death among endurance athletes, those fears are understandable but possibly irrational. Obviously, anyone (no matter their age) just starting on a training program should screen for preexisting conditions and clear things with their doctor. But the perception that high-intensity training is dangerous is overblown.
Friel spends the second half of Fast After 50 dishing the nuts and bolts to help you develop your own program. It’s worth noting here that he is writing primarily to experienced athletes chasing PRs into grandparenthood (or hoping the PRs won’t slip too far in the rearview mirror); this is not a fitness book for beginners, although committed newbies could certainly develop a training program based on the ideas here.

Fans of Friel’s Training Bible series will be familiar with the strategy: Set a goal such as a race or other objective where performance matters, and build a periodized training schedule to peak at the right time. This is the framework for staying fast, and Friel provides plenty of guidance for sorting out the specific training details that work for you. Finding the sweet spot between too little and too much is individualized but highly rewarding. Maintaining intensity is central, but it involves a lot more than hill repeats. You’ll also need to:

Lift Weights

“When you train with heavy loads for several weeks, you develop younger muscles,” Friel writes. “Lifting increases the body’s production of muscle building hormones such as growth hormone, testosterone, and insulin growth factor.”

Eat More Protein

“Recent research … strongly suggests that we need more [protein] as we age,” writes Friel. How much depends on myriad factors, which Friel gets into in his book. The general takeaway is to spread protein intake throughout the day, since the body is limited in how much protein it can process per meal.

Sleep Better, Longer

“Sleep is definitely the key to better performance with aging,” writes Friel. How much? “If you’re using an alarm clock to wake up, you’re not getting enough.”

Consider More Passive Recovery

If active recovery involves light activity—a short bike ride, an easy run—after a race or hard training session, passive recovery is doing basically nothing at all. Friel suggests weaving in more passive recovery as you age. Active recovery may still play a role, but you might find that taking a day (or two) completely off is even more beneficial. There may even be ways to enhance your passive recovery with things like compression tights, cold-water immersion, pneumatic sleeves, and massage.

Be Conservative

Training hard at middle age and beyond can be fraught with risk, as anyone who’s felt their back go sproing during a hard workout will tell you. Injuries heal more slowly as you get older, and that downtime can be tough. “Moderation and consistency” are the best way to ensure longevity and success, counsels Friel.

Monday, September 28, 2015

To the mother of the screaming child at the Scholastic book fair




Link here
  • This article was originally published on Argyle in Spring. It has been republished here with permission.
    To the mother of the screaming child at the scholastic book fair,
    I see you in the library of the elementary school I teach at, and your four-year-old child is screaming at you. He is blood-curdling screaming right in your face. That's why I'm looking at you. That's why everyone is looking at you. He's so mad that you won't buy him that brand new $39.99 Lego Star Wars book with the included lego guys that he "need need neeeeeeds" to have.
    He's putting up a really big scene. I heard him all the way down the hall. He's yelling and punching your legs as he writhes in emotional pain on the floor. He's crying and crying, screaming how mean you are and how rude that you won't give him what he wants. His world is caving in. He just told you you're the worst mom ever.
    More people are looking at you now. The lady at the register is frozen, not sure how to react. Everyone is watching, just waiting and wondering how you're going to handle him. He's making a scene, and that scene is getting louder and more uncomfortable to watch.


    I see a tear welling up in your eye, but I also see the face of courage and strength you're forcing to stick on your face. You are calm and collected, seemingly unfazed by his tantrum. You continue your business at the register, then place the books in your bag, quietly take your daughter by the hand, scoop up the screaming toddler, and walk out of the library. He continues to squirm and punch you. He just clawed your face, leaving a large scratch down your cheek, yet you calmly walk on.
    As you walk to your car (and I can't help but follow and watch in awe at your magical parenting techniques), I hear him scream, "YOU PROMISED I COULD GET A BOOK TODAY!" in between sobs and trying helplessly to catch his breath. To this, you calmly reply, "I gave you $5 to spend on a book today. You picked a book that was more than $5. Then you chose to spend your time in the book fair crying and screaming instead of looking for another book that was $5. I'm sorry you made that choice, that must be very sad for you to leave the book fair with no book today."
    He of course didn't like this reply. In fact, he's screaming louder now. He's squirming so much that he practically falls from your arms. You set him calmly on the ground and firmly, but lovingly, grab his wrist so he doesn't run away. In your calmest, most patient motherly tone, you say, "(name), I love you. I love you so much. I can see that you're sad right now and I feel sad that you are so sad. let's get in the car and find your special blankie, that always makes you feel better."
    He replies, "but, but, but... you didn't get me my book..." You again repeat what you said earlier: that you were sad he made the choice to waste his time crying instead of finding another book that was $5.


    Then, without another word, you give him a big hug (which he resists), scoop him up (only to be again scratched in the face), and put him into his carseat. You close his door and lean up against the car for a brief moment. You breath out a sigh of frustration before you climb in the car and drive away.
    You didn't give in today. You never gave in, and for that I want to say thank you
    Thank you for being a mother that sets boundaries for your child. Thank you for being a mother that doesn't give in to social embarrassment to appease the wants of your crying 4-year-old.
    Thank you for choosing to not give him everything he wants.
    Thank you for having the maturity to scoop him up in your arms as he flails and screams, and calmly explain to him the reasons why you wouldn't be purchasing the Lego book for him today.
    Thank you for having the maturity to talk to your child like an adult and allow him to see the consequences for his actions. Thank you for taking the time to explain to him that this wasn't your problem; it was a mess he created for himself based on a choice he made.
    Thank you for setting an example to all the other mothers that being a firm parent that sticks to her word is much more important than giving in to soothe the screams. Thank you for being a mother that your children can rely on because you are consistent and firm.
    Thank you for being a mother that your children feel safe with, because they know their boundaries and expectations. Thank you for loving your children enough to step away from being their friend, and assume the role of being their parent.
    As a teacher, I experience everyday a wide variety of parents and see the full spectrum of parenting styles and approaches. And as a teacher, I can see the dire need the world has for more mothers like you.
    The scholastic book fair was three months ago, and I'm still thinking about you and the way you handled your child's tantrum that day. You left an impression in my mind, and the minds of everyone that watched you like I did in February.
    Thank you for being the kind of mother that raises respectful, humble children. Your influence is far greater than you will ever realize.
    Sincerely,
    A grateful first grade teacher

Friday, September 25, 2015

Foods that Help you Sleep and Wake

Woah, this is from a baby website (Dr. Sears)! I didn't realise about this but it does all makes good sense. Here I was researching ways to make my baby sleep at night and the answer is smack in front of us. Bah~~

In summary, protein rich food keeps you awake (coz of the amino acid) and Carbs of course makes you sleepy (thanks to insulin).

Yeah, baby wakes up in the middle of the night so it has been a tough journey to maintain sanity. I think I'm more losing brain cells and becoming a gold fish than anything. All good, journies like this are only temporary.

I do like concepts from Dr. Sears though, so feel free to browse more if you're wondering why babies don't sleep long and when would they etc plus some ideas that could help pro-long their sleep.

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What you eat affects how you sleep. One of the keys to a restful night’s sleep is to get your brain calmed rather than revved up. Some foods contribute to restful sleep; other foods keep you awake. We call them sleepers and wakers. Sleepers are tryptophan-containing foods, because tryptophan is the amino acid that the body uses to make serotonin, the neurotransmitter that slows down nerve traffic so your brain isn’t so busy. Wakers are foods that stimulate neurochemicals that perk up the brain.

Tryptophan is a precursor of the sleep-inducing substances serotonin and melatonin. This means tryptophan is the raw material that the brain uses to build these relaxing neurotransmitters. Making more tryptophan available, either by eating foods that contain this substance or by seeing to it that more tryptophan gets to the brain, will help to make you sleepy. On the other hand, nutrients that make tryptophan less available can disturb sleep.

Eating carbohydrates with tryptophan-containing foods makes this calming amino acid more available to the brain. A high carbohydrate meal stimulates the release of insulin, which helps clear from the bloodstream those amino acids that compete with tryptophan, allowing more of this natural sleep-inducing amino acid to enter the brain and manufacture sleep- inducing substances, such as serotonin and melatonin. Eating a high-protein meal without accompanying carbohydrates may keep you awake, since protein-rich foods also contain the amino acid, tyrosine, which perks up the brain.

To understand how tryptophan and carbohydrates work together to relax you, picture the various amino acids from protein foods as passengers on a bus. A busload containing tryptophan and tyrosine arrives at the brain cells. If more tyrosine “passengers” get off the bus and enter the brain cells, neuroactivity will rev up. If more tryptophan amino acids get off the bus, the brain will calm down. Along comes some insulin which has been stalking carbohydrates in the bloodstream. Insulin keeps the tyrosine amino acids on the bus, allowing the brain-calming tryptophan effect to be higher than the effect of the brain-revving tyrosine.

You can take advantage of this biochemical quirk by choosing protein or carbohydrate-rich meals, depending on whether you want to perk up or slow down your brain. For students and working adults, high protein, medium-carbohydrate meals are best eaten for breakfast and lunch. For dinner and bedtime snacks, eat a meal or snack that is high in complex carbohydrates, with a small amount of protein that contains just enough tryptophan to relax the brain. An all- carbohydrate snack, especially one high in junk sugars, is less likely to help you sleep. You’ll miss out on the sleep-inducing effects of tryptophan, and you may set off the roller-coaster effect of plummeting blood sugar followed by the release of stress hormones that will keep you awake. The best bedtime snack is one that has both complex carbohydrates and protein, and perhaps some calcium. Calcium helps the brain use the tryptophan to manufacture melatonin. This explains why dairy products, which contain both tryptophan and calcium, are one of the top sleep-inducing foods.
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